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Wednesday, January 13, 2010

3 Ways To Review Your Progress And Not Beat Yourself Up

It's so hard sometimes to go back and measure our progress.  Whether it's the turning of the calendar to a new year, a new decade (!), or some kind of personal milestone, we all hit those times when we look back and see how far we've come or how we've fallen short of our goals.

If you're like me (i.e. incredibly hard on yourself), it is much easier to see the glass as half or all empty than half full.   Try not to take the easy way out!   Credit where credit is due.

Reviews are important, though.   Accountability is a positive thing and will help you progress personally, spiritually, in business, in your relationships, and in all areas of your life.

Here's 3 simple ways that you can review your progress and not sabotage your future:

1)  Acknowledge your accomplishments:   Start off by making a list of at least 5 things that you have done right.   I credit Ariel Hyatt of CyberPR for this strategy - she suggests doing this every day to keep yourself positive.  This could be as simple as showing up to practice your guitar 5 minutes a day, showing up at the computer to write for 5 minutes a day, etc.  The point is showing up counts!  Give yourself more credit that you feel you deserve.   And schedule some kind of celebration for a job well done - let yourself eat your favorite food, watch your favorite TV show, listen to your favorite music.  You deserve a treat.

2)  Be honest about your shortcomings:   In any kind of personal/business inventory, an honest appraisal of your weak points and missed goals is crucial to forward momentum.   However, keep in mind that the purpose of listing your shortcomings is to figure out what future action is needed.  It's the opposite of wallowing.   List where you've fallen short and, for each area, list an action that can be taken to prevent the same thing from happening in the future.

3)  Make an action plan:   The antidote to depression is action.   List at least 5 things that you can do today (even if you don't get to them all today) to make your next year/fiscal period better than the last one.  They don't have to be huge earthshaking movements.   Small actions breed larger actions.  Start small.  

I wish everyone has a wonderful, healthy, happy 2010!   Hey - we survived the 00s!

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